How to Become Multi-Orgasmic Men
This is a topic that many of you heard about when you have visited our centre, and it has awakened your curiosity. This article is meant to give you an idea of what it is about, and offer you an introduction in our extensive workshop about becoming multi-orgasmic men.
What is orgasm?
The word "ORGASM" comes from the Greek "ORGAO", which means "to be full of passion and pleasure". Clinical experts tell us that orgasm is the moment when physical pleasure reaches its peak. The goal of a skilful lover is to climb not just one peak together with the woman he loves, but an entire range of mountains, each higher and more challenging than the previous one. This is an inner journey, and it requires disciplined training, but it is far worth the effort.
Orgasm is about stimulating intensely our erotic energy and experiencing the euphoric celebration of love as an extraordinary happiness. But usually these moments are often too short. For both men and women, the common orgasm (the ejaculatory orgasm in the case of men and the explosive orgasm in the case of women) does not last more than a few seconds, regardless of its intensity.
Can you experience more orgasms?
Who wouldn’t want to prolong the duration of the miraculous sensations and feelings experienced during the orgasm? This natural wish can become reality: the orgasm can be controlled, and we can experience it several times, if we apply the teachings of the ancient Taoist works. We can learn to prolong the state of orgasm at will, and be transported into a realm of delight and pleasure for a long time.
There are several practices that can prolong the orgasm by the conscious use of the inner energies of the human being. But we need to bare in mind that prolonged orgasm does not mean the extension of ejaculation, because ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing. The human beings who can suspend the process of discharge will be able to achieve an unlimited number of orgasms, without ever having to cope with the state of exhaustion or diminishing desire, which are caused by the common wet orgasm.
It is known that ejaculation is the cause of the resolution phase, and it is not the orgasm that causes it. Boys who discover masturbation before puberty cannot ejaculate, but they can have orgasms. They can also have multiple orgasms like women do, but then they lose this ability when puberty adds ejaculation to their orgasms. Adult men can learn how to separate orgasm from ejaculation and how to keep going and have as many orgasms as they want. This ability can be developed by extensive training, either through manual stimulation or during intercourse. Learning how to do this takes a lot of practice.
Orgasm is separated from ejaculation
It is very important to understand that orgasm can be separated from ejaculation. Any man can learn how to do this by self-stimulation. The aim is to not ejaculate, but to maintain erection for at least half an hour. All this time the man has to concentrate on his sensations and when he feels that he is getting close to climax he has to stop self-stimulation for a few minutes.
How can you control the ejaculatory process?
Strong PC (pubococcygeus) muscles are the starting point in controlling the ejaculatory process. They form the so-called pelvic floor and have the shape of number eight. The first loop is the base of the penis or of the vagina and the second one surrounds the anus. The spot that has to be stimulated is situated approximately in the middle of the perineum, where the two loops come together. By pressing it we can stimulate the prostate zone, which is the equivalent of the G spot for men.
When having an orgasm the PC muscles contract automatically. We have to learn to relax these muscles and quickly contract them at will. Strengthening these muscles results in stronger, more pleasurable orgasms without discharging the sexual energy, a sequence of more and more intense orgasms. Very strong PC muscles are the key to having dry orgasms, so men can start with strengthening those muscles, and then train with slow, prolonged manual stimulation in an attempt to learn how to separate orgasm from ejaculation.
By pressing the prostatic spot firmly and rhythmically men can get an erection. Also, if this spot is pressed very hard and the pressure is maintained for a long time, they can avoid ejaculation. Self-stimulation and massage of the prostatic spot is recommended, as well as an awareness of all the reactions that appear while doing this. Man has to check if a thick secretion appears from the urethral orifice during the peak moments of excitement. If he notices that a few drops appear, it means that he is close to his aim - prolonging the orgasm.
This thick secretion always comes along with a prolonged orgasm. For beginners it is not recommended to be too excited, too passionate, too hasty or in a hurry. It takes at least two weeks of daily training in order to attain such performance, but this period of personal training is absolutely necessary before reaching a prolonged orgasm with the beloved one.
We recommend contractions of the PC muscles as many as a hundred times a day. It is necessary to be very patient in order to get a good control over these muscles. Once a man has achieved this, he will notice a great improvement in his sexual life.
Every time he feels he is close to the non-return point, where he can no longer avoid ejaculation, he should relax his testicles and ejaculation will not occur.
Learning how to relax the muscles of the pelvic floor in any position is very important. Also, a man has to stop any kind of stimulation when he is getting close to climax, but he can start it again after the critical moment has passed.
When the man manages to maintain erection without ejaculation for at least 30 minutes, he will notice that it is very easy to prolong this duration even more. 30 minutes is the shortest period of time required to produce vasodilation and proper muscular tension in order to get a prolonged orgasm.
Each man is different, both physically and mentally, so consider these things as starting points. Experiment and play, and see where it takes you.
The more we learn, the better we’ll be able to improve our sexual life!